Nanny Shares in Sydney: How Two Families Can Make It Work

Jun 6

2 min read

Updated: Oct 8

A nanny share - one nanny caring for children from two families at the same time - is one of the smartest ways to bring the hourly cost of a nanny down without giving up the benefits of in-home care. It also works beautifully for children who would otherwise miss out on regular peer interaction. Here's how Sydney families set one up.

How it usually works

Two families each contribute towards a higher combined hourly rate (typically $50 to $65 per hour total - around two-thirds of what each family would pay individually for their own nanny). The nanny cares for between two and four children, usually in one family's home, with both families sharing costs proportionally.

Finding the right share partner

Pick a family whose children are similar in age to yours and whose values and routines are broadly compatible. Differences on screen time, food and discipline can become flashpoints fast. Meet several times before committing. A successful share is a relationship between three parties: two families and one nanny.

Choosing whose house

One home, not two, is the simpler arrangement. Choose the home with more space, better child-proofing and the most flexible schedule. The host family usually covers utilities used during care, while the visiting family contributes a fair share. Some shares alternate weekly.

Paying the nanny

Both families are joint employers. Most nanny shares set up a single payroll arrangement and split costs. Cover the higher hourly rate, super, leave entitlements and any agreed extras (mileage, meals). A nanny payroll service simplifies the admin.

Putting it in writing

A short share agreement between the two families is invaluable. Cover: how costs split, what happens when one child is sick, holiday arrangements, notice periods if one family withdraws, and the process for replacing the nanny if needed.

Common pitfalls

Schedules drift. One family asks for more hours. A child has a tough patch and needs more attention. None of these are fatal if the families talk early and adjust together. The shares that fail are usually the ones where assumptions go unspoken.

Want to set up a nanny share in Sydney? Nanny Nest can help you find a suitable share partner and place a vetted nanny - get in touch to start.